Allowing the needs of another to take precedence doesn't make you a wimp. It's affirming the supremacy of the marriage over the individual.
Men have mistaken and have an prevalent notion that we are somehow a wimp if we aren't constantly asserting our rights and needs. On the contrary. It takes real strength of character to step back, to concede, to defer, to allow the needs of another to take precedence. It requires security and clarity not to be threatened by this attitude and to instead take pleasure in the giving.
EGO HAS NO PLACE IN RELATIONSHIPS, OR MARRIAGE!
If you want to be treated like a King then stop acting like a Prince and at times a court jester.
