Why Men Cheat?

So a woman ask me today at work why men can't stop cheating. 
Well there are never ending reasons but here are my top five reasons I gave her. 

1. Some men cheat, because they just wanna see if they can get away with it. Yes, you heard me right. Men like playing games more than women.

2. Men also cheat, because they're not used to being in an exclusive relationship, and they ge

t way too bored with the same woman. Being surrounded by one woman all day everyday is not exciting.

3. Other men cheat just to get attention from their girlfriends. These are the "momma boys" who is used to being spoiled all their lives, and when they don't get the attention they want, they go out and look for someone that will.

4. Sometimes women can be pretty annoying, and a pest. That's why most men cheat. No one likes to be nagged. Just to get away, and be with someone whose totally opposite is a relief. That's no excuse but it's true! I know that's retarded but hey we are retarded like that at times.

5. Ladies I hate to say it, but the the older you get the less desirable you are to men. You may be a knock out 35 year old, but it's something about having a young beautiful 23 year old hottie by their side. You know what they say. "It makes us feel young again" yup that's another retarded man thing.

So those are my 5 reasons men cheat. Like I said the list can go on, but do you wanna dwell on those idiots? There are men out there that has no intentions on cheating, and just looking for that special one to settle down with, and start a family. So, ladies please go with your first intuition, and go with the man that you feel is right for you. If he messes up, he's out the door. POW!!
Its really that simple.

All things women need to know about men

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
 Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
 Allow your intuition to save you from heartache.
 Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be
 Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
 If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then hell no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
 Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
 Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
 The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
 If something bothers you, speak up.
 You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
 Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or has a better job.
 Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
 Never let a man define who you are.
 Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
 A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
 All men are NOT dogs.
 You should not be the one doing all the bending... compromise is a two way street.
 You need time to heal between relationships... There is nothing cute about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
 You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...
 A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complementary... Not supplementary.
 Dating is fun... Even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. I said DATING NOT SEX!
When a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
 Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need

She Put Our Race On her Back!

The black woman has kept the family together


and held us together through the Impossible ,She has seen her man The black man stripped of his diginity and of his manhood during the day's of slavery,she has watched the black man suffer fro

m pain and misery of bieng broken to crawling to standing and walking in the 60's to being men,She was there to help and be the backbone of the struggle,When we got our jobs we became head of the household and held our own when we lost our jobs depression wont leave us alone ,


We want to degrade our women ,Pimp our women, Let our women swing from poles and be street corner hoes? What have we done black men? We need to honor our women, Cherish our women, Love our woman ! And women you need to get back that steel spine to keep us in GOD'S divine,We need you black woman I know you can do bad by yourself but with love and devotion together we can build wealth ,


The black man will never be replaced with a grown womans toy,We went half on a baby not a plastic device,Its time to man up and do whats right,And even though your spine is made of titianium steel, It can be bent but not broken if the love is real,Our family structure is complex and challenging so what if I'm not the baby daddy? If the child needs ass whoopin then handle it' A man has to do what he supposed to do bring home the bacon, If wifey making more than you that's love and admiration,


We need you black woman,We need your steel spine to interchange with ours, We need your touch because love mean so much ,We need you to be the queen to fufill your dreams,We need you in our lives to make everything al right,Dont give up on us black woman we lost our way ,We know your the only one who will accept our collect calls When we go to the pen ,You will be the only one at the hospital when we have bullets in our bodies,Your the only one to make sure our kids have food to eat,Your the only one to stand up for us when we are beat down from depression Black woman please forgive us.


We forgot how to love ourselves,How to treat ourselves, How to be all we can be and how to forgive the past and move forward with dignity and pride , You have been holding it down for too long ,It's our turn now, To have the steel spine and rebuild our families and rebuild our friendships and our communities, We love you black woman, We love you and we thank you GOD willing, We will take our rightful place as kings.